Thursday, April 23, 2009

Fighting

Is fighting wrong? Everyone says that getting into fights and beating each other up won't solve anything, but today we proved that wrong. Two of my closest friends got into a huge argument and ended up wanting to fight. They decided to meet up somewhere to fight, and they did. It was just a one on one fist fight, nothing dangerous. After the fight they ended up being closer than they were before, if they would have just kept on talking it would have made everything worse. While they were talking they wanted to kill each other up, after the fight they just ended up hanging out together. I don't know if this is how the male mind works but I think that fighting makes things better, it's just like a stress reliever and it helps you calm down and think more about what you have done. I know that if they would have kept talking back to each other they would have ended up never talking or hanging out again. Fighting just made it so both of them would calm down and just take all that stress out. I don't know if fighting will always be the best thing, but it has worked a lot of times, specially this one. What do you think? Is it better to let out all that anger and fight or try to talk and clam down?
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  1. brandonApril 27, 2009 at 1:10 PM

    i dont think that fighting is the answer. but i do think that it can be used to solve a problem. if it comes down to the point where ou have to fight in order to get your messege through, i think its alright. im not trying to promote fighting, but i am saying that if you have no other choice, you need to do what you need to do. i only think fighting is ok when it is needed. if you feel like you dont need to fight, then you should work out the problem with words not fists.

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  2. Kaley!April 30, 2009 at 6:40 PM

    It is definitely better to just talk it out and chill out. Angry feelings go away after being in the situation for like 20 minutes or so, so if they just wait, there won't be any fighting at all! Fighting is dumb, everyone should just be happppy!

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  3. DanApril 30, 2009 at 7:14 PM

    It all depends on the situation. Of course, at first you would try and solve it by talking it out. If it is a stupid argument about something small it would be pointless. However, if it was about helping your friend in need or even protecting yourself from the person. It all comes back to you, whether you're in danger or someone else.

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